Guest Articles

Levels of Consciousness

Written by:
Andjeka Sharshanski
Date of issue:
18.10.2014.

The family order goes beyond the concept of personal experience and trauma. It includes wounds that are part of the destiny of the others’: those that we are connected through empathy, intimacy, blind love, to those with whom we are trying to compensate and establish the harmony. This process goes beyond time and space.


The Spirit contains the whole, the field, and everything that affects the individual, independently of time and space... read more

Hierarchy Between the Partners

Written by:
Andjelka Šaršanski
Date of issue:
28.09.2014.
In the bases of partnership is a deep, natural force for life maintenance and its continuation. That force is maintained through sexual instinct. Father and mother are equal. A man needs a woman and all of what she is in order to realize himself fully. A woman needs a man in order to completely fulfill her nature. They together mature and connection between the two becomes deep and forward moving. 
 
However, the attachment is not the same as... read more

The Right for Order - The Right of Precedence

Written by:
Andjelka Šaršanski
Date of issue:
19.08.2014.
The soul has a deep need for order. Order creates the frame where love will fulfill the space- love without order often ends up tragically. The order serves continuation of life through generations and maintains the need for biological survival of the group.
 
In the family systems, the basic order is manifested through the concepts of place and rank.
 
Transgenerational hierarchy
 
The family soul gives priority to those that... read more

The Balance of Giving and Receiving

Written by:
Andjelka Sharshanski
Date of issue:
06.07.2014.

Human beings have deeply rooted need for balance and justice. It consciously can be expressed in many forms:


- giving and receiving in the relationships


- obligation


- guilt and alignment


- compensation


- revenge and making peace


We consciously recognize imbalance and injustice. We also have a need to bring relationships into order by correcting imbalance on honorable and just way. Similarly, we feel... read more

The mechanism of transfering destiny from the previous family members

Written by:
Andjelka Šaršanski
Date of issue:
09.05.2014.
Acceptance and involvment in the destiny of the ancestors
 
1. Imitation
As children, we  try to be like our parents and other people we love. Children  endevour to be close with family members, primarely with parents.  They succeed  by imitating the parents and by wanting to share their behavour and destiny. That is the way of gaining the sense of closeness, even if that kind of imitating... read more

Need and Right to Belong

Written by:
Andjelka Sharshanski
Date of issue:
10.04.2014.

This is the second law of the Family Order- to admit what is, because the consciousness and admittance of the problem is already half of the resolution. If we are not conscious of something, or we are conscious but we do not want to admit it, than we spend much of our energy on the projection and repression. We keep spinning in the vicious cycle, and sometimes, we do not even want to get out of that circle.


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Basic Laws of the Family Constellations

Written by:
Andjelka Sharshanski
Date of issue:
28.02.2014.

The Family Constellation is based on the respect of the basic cosmic laws. Disrespect of these laws has difficult consequences; by energetic work in the field of Family order we can contribute to reestablishment of the natural order.


Two basic dynamics take care of the family system: the family conscience and the balance between giving and receiving.


There is a conscience we feel and that conscience maintains the order in the... read more

Family Constellations

Written by:
Anđelka Šaršanski
Date of issue:
22.01.2014.

Anđelka Šaršanski has the experience of participation in the work of hundreds of people in the workshops of Family Constellations or Order of Love for almost ten years, as well as several years of practice in individual sessions using these methods. Her quest began in the early nineties. Her path took her through the Transcendental Meditation and Maharishi’s teachings, The Art of Living, Sun-gazing (watching the sun), the practice of Qi... read more