February 12, 1975
Greetings, my very dearest friends. Blessings for every one of you. With great joy I again dip temporarily into your world and show you another helpful step, if you choose to make it so. This lecture is about balance. Balance is what keeps the universe intact. If there were no balance, no balancing consciousness, no balancing law, everything would disintegrate. ... read more
The family order goes beyond the concept of personal experience and trauma. It includes wounds that are part of the destiny of the others’: those that we are connected through empathy, intimacy, blind love, to those with whom we are trying to compensate and establish the harmony. This process goes beyond time and space.
The Spirit contains the whole, the field, and everything that affects the individual, independently of time and space... read more
However, the attachment is not the same as... read more
In the family systems, the basic order is manifested through the concepts of place and rank.
The family soul gives priority to those that... read more
Human beings have deeply rooted need for balance and justice. It consciously can be expressed in many forms:
- giving and receiving in the relationships
- guilt and alignment
- revenge and making peace
We consciously recognize imbalance and injustice. We also have a need to bring relationships into order by correcting imbalance on honorable and just way. Similarly, we feel... read more
As children, we try to be like our parents and other people we love. Children endevour to be close with family members, primarely with parents. They succeed by imitating the parents and by wanting to share their behavour and destiny. That is the way of gaining the sense of closeness, even if that kind of imitating... read more
This is the second law of the Family Order- to admit what is, because the consciousness and admittance of the problem is already half of the resolution. If we are not conscious of something, or we are conscious but we do not want to admit it, than we spend much of our energy on the projection and repression. We keep spinning in the vicious cycle, and sometimes, we do not even want to get out of that circle.
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The Family Constellation is based on the respect of the basic cosmic laws. Disrespect of these laws has difficult consequences; by energetic work in the field of Family order we can contribute to reestablishment of the natural order.
Two basic dynamics take care of the family system: the family conscience and the balance between giving and receiving.
There is a conscience we feel and that conscience maintains the order in the... read more
Anđelka Šaršanski has the experience of participation in the work of hundreds of people in the workshops of Family Constellations or Order of Love for almost ten years, as well as several years of practice in individual sessions using these methods. Her quest began in the early nineties. Her path took her through the Transcendental Meditation and Maharishi’s teachings, The Art of Living, Sun-gazing (watching the sun), the practice of Qi... read more