After just flipping through some titles in the news today I felt so much injustice, fear, conflict, lies, stilling and treachery that is going on in the world scene. There was so much I wanted to express in the moment: my anger on the people in position that kill, steal and lie, my desperateness when it comes to human rights and economical issues (especially when you see somebody getting filthy wealthier by every minute of the day, and some... read more
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“What is so wrong with me? Everything I do seems to be wrong. There is something wrong with what I say, what I am, what I do….there is even something wrong with my love. I seem to love people on a wrong way” said the woman in front of me while tightening her throat and chin trying to control the emerging emotions.
O boy, didn’t I understand her, hear her, didn’t I resonate with her? When we have this type of wounding, it seems that... read more
However, the attachment is not the same as... read more
In the family systems, the basic order is manifested through the concepts of place and rank.
The family soul gives priority to those that... read more
Human beings have deeply rooted need for balance and justice. It consciously can be expressed in many forms:
- giving and receiving in the relationships
- guilt and alignment
- revenge and making peace
We consciously recognize imbalance and injustice. We also have a need to bring relationships into order by correcting imbalance on honorable and just way. Similarly, we feel... read more
As children, we try to be like our parents and other people we love. Children endevour to be close with family members, primarely with parents. They succeed by imitating the parents and by wanting to share their behavour and destiny. That is the way of gaining the sense of closeness, even if that kind of imitating... read more
-Death as one of the most powerful awakenings in life-
The search for meaning and deep assurance that there must be something more to life than just what we encounter in our everyday routine, a lot of deep work on herself (for about twenty years), enabled her today to suc-cessfully help others on this path.
"There was this release of the life force," says Katarina about her awakening (post surgery). "Then the energy began to move more... read more
This is the second law of the Family Order- to admit what is, because the consciousness and admittance of the problem is already half of the resolution. If we are not conscious of something, or we are conscious but we do not want to admit it, than we spend much of our energy on the projection and repression. We keep spinning in the vicious cycle, and sometimes, we do not even want to get out of that circle.
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The Family Constellation is based on the respect of the basic cosmic laws. Disrespect of these laws has difficult consequences; by energetic work in the field of Family order we can contribute to reestablishment of the natural order.
Two basic dynamics take care of the family system: the family conscience and the balance between giving and receiving.
There is a conscience we feel and that conscience maintains the order in the... read more
What is love? Love is when someone believes in you, even when you made mistake, even when you didn’t fulfill expectations, even when that someone is not agreeing with your life orientations and choices. Love is when there is no reason for loving, when there is no motivation, when you are accepted just the way you are. Despite the fact that we might have disappointed someone, that someone is not rejecting us. Love is the state of being. It... read more